I'm 5'9" and I love wearing heels - all the ones I have are 5" and some 6" it usually makes me taller than everyone including guys but if I like the shoes I like the shoes - I once had a date function and with my heels ended up being taller than my date so I wanted to change/wouldn't take pictures with him and his response was "who the hell cares? you look good and i personally don't care if you're taller than me in a couple pictures" so after that I kind of stopped being self conscious about it and wore whatever shoes I pleased regardless of how tall they made me