I am a fan of Vita's youtube channel, if not her current body, because of the straightforwardness and honesty with which she expresses herself. I find her to give the facts of the situation, and how it made her feel, whilst not being whiny or blaming anyone for her problems. Even in this video, where it could have easily turned into a "vS iS eVilL1!1" type of thing for views, she still is very pragmatic about accepting that modeling is an appearance-based business and that her problem was her own mental state and her reaction to the stress rather than blaming the industry. She also maintains that VS was an incredible opportunity for her and she doesn't regret "going for it" and committing to achieve a goal. Overall, the least amount of bullshit in this type of video I've seen.
I agree, compared to most of the videos like it, her viewpoint is better.
But tbqh my ice queen bitch opinion is that these girls (
who have the industry to thank for the fact that anyone listens to them at all) should STFU. Sorry to sound cold and cruel but I've been betrayed too many times by whining like this to support it even 1%.
"I was starving myself but they still told me I was fat"
THEN YOU WERE FAT, BY THEIR STANDARDS which are very strict. There's a reason we call it "Paris skinny". The word fat means different things in different situations. When I'm pitching girls for Paris shows, "fat" (grosse) means one thing. When I'm doing an open or closed call in NY, it means something else. When my sister says it, it means something else. So regular people hear it and they don't put it into the context and get all triggered.
But take her logic to something else. "I was studying but I still kept failing" so is that the test's fault or yours? "I kept trying to do my job but kept fucking up" etc
I just hate the entitlement. I know I'm terrible and mean about this but I've just gotten soooo much of it during my career that it makes my blood boil and I over react to it. I feel that it is extremely rude, disrespectful, and ingrateful.
If you had any grace and self-respect you'd just say
at worst "thank you for the opportunities - the industry isn't perfect but I'm glad for what it gave me and am not going to criticize" and STFU. A lot of girls chose to do that instead. Some give their opinions privately. I respect that. Oh also it's pretty interesting that it's always the lower-tier girls who whine the loudest.
My opinion. I know it's harsh, but I'm harsh.