Feminism =/= not needing a man though? That's kinda like the flawed pseudo feminism crap that gets pushed in the media: feminism = men haters, feminism = women > men.
I'm not the OP but in a way this does bug me. I'd like to think of myself as a strong female, but I can damn well need a man if I WANT to. I'm very against "feminists" telling me what I should want because fuck you, I'll do what I want, when I want, and I fully accept the consequences. But no one tells me what I "should" do. It's also kinda like saying being a feminist = not allowed to be sexy/enjoy sex/flaunt your body. Uh no. I can look good, enjoy sex, AND be pro-equality. They're not mutually exclusive. I'm completely off topic but oh well. I really want to watch this movie though. Angelina is too beautiful.
I don't really feel like the movie is trying to say "I don't need a man". Or perhaps, it's the "need" part. They might not need a man, to be strong, to become who they want to be, etc. But they might want a man. Isn't there a difference? I don't feel like there's such a message in the movie, that women can't be in love and strong (Aurora does fall in love), or that they can't be beautiful and strong (sums up Maleficent). But I felt like the main focus wasn't feminism, but platonic love and friendship. That romantic love isn't the only love that can be strong, beautiful, moving, and worth something. Or that we can move past our hurt and grow as people.
I don't know if my thoughts come across. Either way, I really liked the movie. Angelina Jolie is stunning and perfect for the role.