It wasn't sexual assault, and since she says in the article that the dynamic wasn't one of 'desperate model doing whatever it takes to work with star tog' she can't even claim the 'b-b-b-but power imbalance!!!!' card.
It wasn't sexual assault, and since she says in the article that the dynamic wasn't one of 'desperate model doing whatever it takes to work with star tog' she can't even claim the 'b-b-b-but power imbalance!!!!' card.
Girls I don’t think sexual assault is an opinion
Her: “skinny legs”OMG I eyerolled so hard. I started scrolling thru it and one of the first sentences I read
''The wild-looking flowers substitute for my head, as if the arrangement had grown skinny legs''
Cringe. Imma have to disagree with that
I can’t believe you girls in here sometime. Seriously? We ALL know what she meant by “not giving permission”. You obviously don’t literally give permission to a guy to do anything sexual to you, but for it to be called consent, there has to be a certain type of situation where the two people are obviously attracted to each other and the woman’s body language suggests that she wants him and everything, which I’m sure wasn’t the case with Emily, whether she was drunk or not. So we’re doing victim blaming now and everyone is throwing the agree button just because it’s FT, and Emily isn’t skinny? You girls are better than that.Maybe I'm just getting old and I'm not woke enough, but I've never actually given someone permission to finger me.
Him/Her: "May I put my finger(s) inside you?"
Me: "idk how many?"
Him/Her: "idk one, maybe two? not three though"
Me: "Why certainly. Yes you may."
omg so hot
the woman’s body language suggests that she wants him and everything
I can’t believe you girls in here sometime. Seriously? We ALL know what she meant by “not giving permission”. You obviously don’t literally give permission to a guy to do anything sexual to you, but for it to be called consent, there has to be a certain type of situation where the two people are obviously attracted to each other and the woman’s body language suggests that she wants him and everything, which I’m sure wasn’t the case with Emily, whether she was drunk or not. So we’re doing victim blaming now and everyone is throwing the agree button just because it’s FT, and Emily isn’t skinny? You girls are better than that.
None of us was there to know what really happened and why she classified it as sexual assault, therefore none of us should make this type of decredibilizing comments about her misadventure, lots of people think that women call out their rapists just for attention or something, and that sucks
None of us was there to know what really happened and why she classified it as sexual assault, therefore none of us should make this type of decredibilizing comments about her misadventure
which I’m sure wasn’t the case with Emily
Or is it only OK to "decredibilize" the man?
Yes because in most cases women wouldn’t lie about that. I believe her, he was being predatory and took advantage of her. And you would have believed the woman too if it was Vlada or Anna S. who talked about this right?
Yes because in most cases women wouldn’t lie about that. I believe her, he was being predatory and took advantage of her. And you would have believed the woman too if it was Vlada or Anna S. who talked about this right?
I believe her too. I believe her when she said they sat and cuddled together under a blanket, I believe her when she said she rubbed her feet against him, I believe her when she said he put her fingers inside her, I believe her when she said she pushed him away, I believe her when she said he got up and left and didn’t try it again. I don’t AGREE that what he did was disgusting.
Same. But I don't believe her that she "can't remember" if they kissed. They obviously did, or she never would say that.
I’ve gotta be honest, I am normally someone who says “believe the victim” but based on the article, I’m just not seeing what exactly he did that could be classified as sexual assault. He offered her the wine and she drank 3+ glasses of it by her own admission (so as far as we know, he didn’t spike it), she admits to flirting with him and trying to impress him to stand out from other models, she cuddled him naked under a blanket and initiated/continued deeply intimate conversations with him. I do think he made a mistake by going straight to fingering a drunk/tipsy woman and I think he should have addressed that, but the moment she rejected him, he didn’t try anything on her again and immediately left.Yes because in most cases women wouldn’t lie about that. I believe her, he was being predatory and took advantage of her. And you would have believed the woman too if it was Vlada or Anna S. who talked about this right?
Same. But I don't believe her that she "can't remember" if they kissed. They obviously did, or she never would say that.
I am just saying as a woman, if a friend of mine would tell me that she got fingered and didn’t want to, I wouldn’t discuss it. I think consent is a sensitive topic, it’s not good to dismiss it like this. So many girls find themselves in situations, even having sex with their boyfriend, that they feel pressured to or feel forced. I’ve been feeling so myself.What does this mean? That Emily's calling it sexual assault automatically makes it so? Damn, humankind hasn't had this kind of linguistic power since God made Adam name the animals.