I'm sorry, I know several people with down syndrome and I just thought it was weird how similar her eyes looked to theirs. Maybe I should have phrased the sentence differently or simply abstained from commenting.I'm sorry and I didn't mean it as a blow against you, I just have a very personal tie to the subject and I reacted very intensely, I recognize that it was out of proportion but many people feel the way I do so be a bit more tactful with your comparisons